Do you know what true love is?!
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Do you know what true love is?!
I know what true love is (I feel that)
For me, and I think is correct, true love means loving the other person's happiness, even if that person is not with you, I mean, if that person is happy, you're happy even if he/she is not with you. is when all that matters is that's person's happiness, wellness..
That's why I can say for sure: I LOVE MY EX GIRLFRIEND, I LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART, I LOVE ANGIE QUINTERO!
For me, and I think is correct, true love means loving the other person's happiness, even if that person is not with you, I mean, if that person is happy, you're happy even if he/she is not with you. is when all that matters is that's person's happiness, wellness..
That's why I can say for sure: I LOVE MY EX GIRLFRIEND, I LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART, I LOVE ANGIE QUINTERO!
Assa!- Clandestine
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I certainly don't know what you're talking about. :D
Wildfire- Clandestine
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Re: Do you know what true love is?!
What i believe constitutes as love, is not one sided. For people, it occurs when both sides like each other, that is when you can officially qualify it as LOVE. If it is one side, it is no love, only affection. Loving a person for their personality, lust, abilities, etc, those are all part of a person. You should love a person as a whole, if you are simply enjoying one aspect of a person I would therefore deem it as infatuation. Love a person's good features, as well as their setbacks. If you can love both, then you really love that person. I only realize this now. So tell me this, Assa, did you really love your ex?
seekerking- Clandestine
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i learn bacon love :)
Milooox- Clandestine
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Milo is my new best friend.
Wildfire- Clandestine
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Chu want an essay or what. Not quite sure what you're trying to accomplish here, if you're simply looking for an answer or a way to comfort yourself, or a way to move on? Because you really, really need to move on. If you say/think/know that you love her, then fine, you love her. You can still love someone and move on.
I also agree that "true" love cannot be one-sided. Theeeen agaaaaaain I'm not sure I believe the widespread idealized version of "true love" actually exists. Or maaaaybe the concepts of "love" and "a relationship" are just not as related as we'd like to think~ Not even sure what I want to write because it's hard to articulate anyway and I'm tireeeeed.
a relationship
is work
is hard work
requires both parties to put forth effort
requires compromise
requires acceptance
requires willingness to learn
requires listening
requires a willingness to accept changes over time
love
is profound
is giving
is kind
is acceptance of the other person's faults
is celebration of the other person's good qualities
hurts
is cruel
can be bitter
is not the same as wanting to be with said person 24/7, that's infatuation
is trust
is profound trust
is giving someone the power to destroy you but trusting them not to
is something that can change
is something that can change over time
is something that, just because it changes, doesn't mean it's not love or that it was never love
is caring for another person
is caring for the other person's well-being, their happiness
is when it's painful to hear the other person's pain
is when their pain quite literally makes your heart ache
is when all you want to do is take their heart and heal it for them that's some form of empathy
is not so kind
is smiles and laughter
is poignant memories
is hard to describe
G'night. <3
I also agree that "true" love cannot be one-sided. Theeeen agaaaaaain I'm not sure I believe the widespread idealized version of "true love" actually exists. Or maaaaybe the concepts of "love" and "a relationship" are just not as related as we'd like to think~ Not even sure what I want to write because it's hard to articulate anyway and I'm tireeeeed.
a relationship
is work
is hard work
requires both parties to put forth effort
requires compromise
requires acceptance
requires willingness to learn
requires listening
requires a willingness to accept changes over time
love
is profound
is giving
is kind
is acceptance of the other person's faults
is celebration of the other person's good qualities
hurts
is cruel
can be bitter
is not the same as wanting to be with said person 24/7, that's infatuation
is trust
is profound trust
is giving someone the power to destroy you but trusting them not to
is something that can change
is something that can change over time
is something that, just because it changes, doesn't mean it's not love or that it was never love
is caring for another person
is caring for the other person's well-being, their happiness
is when it's painful to hear the other person's pain
is when their pain quite literally makes your heart ache
is not so kind
is smiles and laughter
is poignant memories
is hard to describe
G'night. <3
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X 40 sugun i think the same D:
Milooox- Clandestine
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Sigh Siggy, i owe u a beer for that. The amount of time it took you to write that in spite of how Assa is behaving was not worth it. Just let him go, he's still young. He may be 18, drink like a booze hound, but it just shows how mentally he's just another 13 year old =_=
seekerking- Clandestine
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Re: Do you know what true love is?!
gosh siggy :<
assa grow up, learn from your experiences and move on
assa grow up, learn from your experiences and move on

Dalomar- Clandestine
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For once... dollar-mar's two cents were worth more than you bargained for....
:D
:D
seekerking- Clandestine
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True love is not worth looking for until your ready for commitment. I found out the hard way.
*open for discussion*
I lie.

I lie.
Troll345- Clandestine
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What happened Mikey :O
Did u meet a nice girl?? ;D
Did u meet a nice girl?? ;D
seekerking- Clandestine
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What nonsense you speak of seeker. Mikey + Girl = ?
No chance bud.
:(
I lie.
No chance bud.
:(
I lie.
Troll345- Clandestine
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Ppls, this is pretty old shit xD! I've already learnt and I'm moving on... As Siggy said, "you can still love someone and move on" well, that's what I'm doing :) No more emo mode :D <3! Thx you all for... Telling me to grow up e.e D:<......
AAAAAaaaaaaaaaaannd the booze part, has NOTHING to do with her, I just drink a lot because I LOVE IT! :D Well some time before I had, not anymore :)
AAAAAaaaaaaaaaaannd the booze part, has NOTHING to do with her, I just drink a lot because I LOVE IT! :D Well some time before I had, not anymore :)
Assa!- Clandestine
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Re: Do you know what true love is?!
Just stop drinking, period. Your liver will thank you for it.
Seriously Mike, who is the lucky (or unlucky) lady?? ;D
Seriously Mike, who is the lucky (or unlucky) lady?? ;D
seekerking- Clandestine
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No one that you should know.
Troll345- Clandestine
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It would be none one that i would know ;(
Ur a horrible liar.
Ur a horrible liar.
seekerking- Clandestine
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I dun lie. No one you should know about. How do you even know that person I speak of exists.
Onananan~ Whats her name?
Onananan~ Whats her name?
Troll345- Clandestine
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Man I forgot the name, if I could remember I'd screw this all up for you.
Wildfire- Clandestine
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Ariel my friend you fail. : )
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Vinnie ! :D
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Ariel my friend you fail. : )
&
Vinnie ! :D
Troll345- Clandestine
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I don't fail, you're just not worth the waste of energy to check msn logs.
Wildfire- Clandestine
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I am not worth it indeed. I agree 100% pro. : )
Or maybe shes just not worth remembering?
I'll go with the second one.
Or maybe shes just not worth remembering?
I'll go with the second one.
Troll345- Clandestine
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Love is a brand of egoism that ignores the feelings of its mark, while
insisting on its own selfish demands.
xD
insisting on its own selfish demands.
xD
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Love is when you play Kingdom Hearts 2 for 1.5 hours and realize you gotta sleep late again to finish your homework D:
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